 你知道吗，我在想...我们可以为孩子们做的最重要的事情之一就是 meet them right where they are at 和 understanding their learning style is where it all begins when it comes to 学校!
Whether at public 学校 or at home I remember trying to help my girls learn. So many times we had to work through the emotional stuff 和 then through 影响 of trauma 和 other deficits 和 then they could 最后 learn some concepts. The question became HOW? How 可以 I teach them what they needed to know 和 how 可以 I support the teacher at school to do the same? 重点在于学习风格。真正了解每个 my girls learned and 为什么真的帮助我清楚地看到了事情！ 一旦您弄清楚了，那里就有很多宝贵的资源可以帮助我们教孩子们。 学校里也有老师也想帮忙，但是没时间 需要弄清楚什么对我们的孩子最合适。 如果我们知道他们如何最好地学习，我们可以将其纳入IEP或传递给老师。 学习风格确实会影响整个体验...诸如他们是否可以坐着不动的东西， how they handle their emotions, figuring out math 和 reading, making friends, 和 even following the rules. It really is one of the most important elements in making 学校 work 和 that's why it is 下节课的主要重点之一 您孩子最好的学年。 想象一下 a more peaceful 学校 year! I know that your child's 学校 year can be different 和 I know how to arm you with the words 和 tools to get there! 这个有意家长系列不包括一个，但是 该领域的3位专家 along with tools, techniques 和 communication strategies that you have never heard before! 有很多事情可以做！和我一起享受我的专属 4周课程 和 be one of 只有25个家庭 这将彻底改变他们孩子的上学经历！ In order to make sure you get a very specific plan in place I can only take 25 families so don't wait! Oh 和 by the way - in an effort to make sure you get everything you need to make this year different I am also giving you 免费提供2个其他热门课程. 剩下的课程很少...现在就注册吧，因为注册 明天（8月13日星期六）关闭 at NOON! 使用下面的链接进行注册！ http://www.zhaosdo.com/intentional-parent-master-series.html**您还将获得...我的两个畅销书的免费录音 Dealing With The Daily Grind: Eating, Sleeping 和 Bathrooming & The Power of Hope ***如果您不能在上课的当晚与我们见面，我已覆盖您。 你去 watch the recording! Let's get started on making this your child's BEST 学校 year yet!
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 It's that time of year again...Back to 学校. Once again, as 故意父母s, we need to see with our hearts 和 our heads, not only our eyes. 我们需要在这个学年中支持我们的孩子们，在他们所在的地方与他们见面–看到整个孩子而不仅仅是外部幸存者！ 这是一种非常有意识的心态！
对于我们许多孩子来说，上学很困难！ 公交车甚至更困难！ 它真的可以迫使他们回到自己的生存者手中！ 考虑一下；几天以来，这是最合适的感觉。 您是否有合适的衣服，合适的鞋子，您是否足够高，足够凉爽，是否使用了合适的行话？除了您的家人可能与别人不同之外，您’看过这么多，大人伤害了你，孩子伤害了你，你不’不要以为你足够聪明，足够强壮，足够漂亮并且不断。 难怪我们的孩子这么难！作为有意父母，如果我们看到缺陷而不是缺陷，我们将为他们提供最好的帮助！ 我们的一些孩子很好地覆盖了它。 他们中的一些人甚至成为了完美的学生。 他们内在地相信，如果他们是一个好学生，他们是值得的。 我们希望他们进行内在化，我们相信他们是有价值的，只是因为他们（我们的孩子）是谁，而不是他们的工作。 我们将在那里为他们提供任何帮助！ 我们必须一遍又一遍地表达这种现实，然后采取行动予以支持！ 支持他们，成为他们的啦啦队长。 Teach them balance. 教他们拥有一个“one 和 only”! 我们的一些孩子将无法轻松覆盖。 但是，这又一次是关于他们对自己的核心信念，因此我们必须提醒他们，即使他们没有’即使他们与其他人感觉如此不同，即使他们担心在与我们不在一起时失去我们，也相信他们能够做到–只要有需要，我们就会在那里，没有任何问题！ 我们知道，需要关怀的行为背后有一种情感。 我们很清楚，从事依恋的孩子也很难完成学业。 我们知道他们的斗争不是因为“he isn’t trying” hard enough. 我们在我们的孩子身边，看到他的整个自我-没什么！ 清晰地了解“故意父母心态”’t always easy. 这是我们开始向上游游泳的地方–逆流而上，与众不同！ 真正的好消息是这就是治疗发生的地方，因为这是我们的孩子真正开始了解为某人服务的意义。 他们开始内化，因为他们很重要，他们值得拥有美好的生活！ 这些信息会影响他们对自己的核心信念，随着时间的流逝，他们将被释放以更加自由地学习和探索世界！ 因此，当我们试图帮助家庭作业，教育老师，应对丑陋的行为时，我们必须记住要使用故意父母心态。 As we parent our child who has lost so much, we must always look behind the behavior (positive 和 negative) 和 meet the emotional needs that are there!  Problems with math, being overwhelmed with getting assignments back 和 forth, 和 not understanding the reason for rules...these are all 植根于同一个地方。 When you start focusing on the impacts 在学习中受到创伤，您将能够 创建您孩子最好的学年！
Trauma takes its toll on many aspects of learning with concentration, memorization 和 self-regulation being just a few. 因此，许多家庭都在努力帮助受伤的孩子获得积极的学习经历。但是，他们报告感觉自己好像撞上了砖墙。 我们的孩子由于失去亲生父母而遭受了创伤，毫无疑问， 这对他们的上学能力有很大的影响。他们在任务上的能力被发展过程中的缺失所扭曲。学习 需要组织和监管，但是他们做这些事情的能力绝对受到损害，因为 他们长大的混乱和矛盾之处。 问题是真实的...这是赤字而不是反抗！ The great news is that there are tools 和 techniques that can help your child be more successful in 学校 和 maybe even have fun doing it! Imagine, your child having his best 学校 year yet! 这会对您的整个家庭造成影响！ 有很多事情可以做！和我一起享受我的专属 4周课程 and be one of 只有25个家庭 这将彻底改变他们孩子的上学经历！ In order to make sure you get a very specific plan in place I can only take 25 families so don't wait! Oh 和 by the way - in an effort to make sure you get everything you need to make this year different I am also giving you 另外2个非常受欢迎的课程是免费的。 I know that things can be different 和 I know how to arm you with the words 和 tools to get there! 这个有意家长系列不包括一个，而是 该领域的3位专家 along with tools, techniques 和 communication strategies that you have never heard before! DOORS are closing VERY soon! Don't wait 和 miss it! 现在就开始制定您的行动计划！使用下面的链接进行注册！ http://www.zhaosdo.com/intentional-parent-master-series.htmlOkay so let me make sure you know...I can only work this closely with a group of 25 和 be effective - 25 is the cap 和 seats are already going! *****您还将获得...我的两个畅销书的免费录音 Dealing With The Daily Grind: Eating, Sleeping 和 Bathrooming & The Power of Hope ***如果您不能在上课的当晚与我们见面，我已覆盖您。 你去 watch the recording! 我们在课室见！  我只需要一分钟。我知道您现在真的不想处理学校的话题，但是如果您还没有开始，那么第一天就在眼前！现在是时候制定出一个计划，让您的孩子最好的一年！
SO here's the thing. Many families struggle with the actual learning part of 学校 - especially math. Others are constantly getting called into 学校 because of their child's disruptive behavior. And then there are those moms 和 dads who are concerned about their child's lack of ability to fit in 和 have friends. 学校 is simply torture year after year. Our girls struggled too. Lots of our time was spent managing fight, flight 和 freeze 和 not really feeling like they were grasping topics. The blow-ups 和 tantrums rocked our home almost every day 和 the adults at 学校 just didn't get where we were coming from. I realized very quickly that 学校 was just another place I needed to learn to be an 故意父母. I HAD to do this differently. I had to know how my child learned best, what would that look like 和 then I had to dig deep to make a plan that would help him get there. Learning should be fun;it was up to me to figure out how my child 可以 be happy within his 学校 experience. I want this year to be totally different for you 和 your student. 而且可以！ 您真的知道所有选择吗？你知道你的孩子如何学习最好吗？更好的是，您知道如何实现吗？ There are so many options available, so much research you need to know 和 SO MANY tools, techniques 和 strategies that WILL make all the difference. 让我来帮忙。 If you are ready to figure out the best path for your child, one that allows him to like to learn, to do better in math 和 reading to make friends, 和 keep his behavior in check, then let's do this! I will take 一小组只有25名家长的小班学生，参加了4节课，因此我可以与你们每个人紧密合作，帮助您制定下学年的行动计划。 I know that things can be different 和 I know how to arm you with the words 和 tools to get there! 这个有意家长系列不包括一个，但是 该领域的3位专家 随着 tools, techniques 和 communication strategies that you have never heard before! 现在就开始制定您的行动计划！使用下面的链接进行注册！ http://www.zhaosdo.com/intentional-parent-master-series.html Okay, so let me make sure you know...I can only work this closely with a group of 25 和 be effective - 25 is the cap 和 seats are already going! *****您还将获得...我的两个畅销书的免费录音 Dealing With The Daily Grind: Eating, Sleeping 和 Bathrooming & The Power of Hope 您可以收听录音！ Let's make this your child's BEST 学校 year yet!  As I talk to parents all around the world, one of the repeating themes is learning or as many refer to it - 学校. It doesn't matter if it is public, private or home - learning 和 all that entails is a challenge for our children.
Studies show that children who have had difficult pasts (loss of a bio parent, an anxious parent, abuse, neglect, 和 many other diagnoses) struggle with the learning experience. These children have a hard time academically, behaviorally 和 with making 和 retaining positive friendships. 父母 confide in me that they feel trapped 和 don't know how to help their children be more successful. They deal with melt downs of huge proportions around 学校 work, they get called from 学校 regularly due to their child's disrespectful or aggressive behavior 和 that sometimes it just seems like their child doesn't care. It is such a huge stumbling block for many, many families. 与任何挑战一样，我们将共同努力，找出使孩子的学习旅程更积极，更成功的变化。然后，我们重点介绍父母可以用来帮助实现这些改变的工具和技术。这些变化通常分为以下五类之一：与您的孩子会面，创建一个适合您孩子需求的学习环境，使边缘系统平静下来，处于一个支持练习，教育和武装其他关键人物的环境中您孩子的路。 使一切保持一致是关键！而当您发现自己与一个更快乐，更镇定，更成功的孩子打交道时。这种变化影响了整个家庭！您可以为此做些事情，但是必须努力！ 我想帮助您从各个角度看一下。要创造更成功的学习经历，有很多选择。当您掌握了所有信息后，就可以制定一个更明智和有效的计划。我们将深入研究该过程的每个方面...加入我和只有24个其他人一起深入学习，并从今年秋天开始享受非常不同的学年。您的家人不必为了学习而痛苦不已！您需要一个行动计划，其中应包含切实可行的久经考验的真实技巧！ 和我一起参加下一次会议 您孩子的学习历程 和 看 your family begin to THRIVE! http://www.zhaosdo.com/intentional-parent-master-series.html 父母故意培训系列：您孩子的学习之旅 是全新的. Come 和 join me, 2 other Education Experts 和 an exclusive group of 25 families to make the biggest positive change your family has felt in a long time! |
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